Children’s Voices for Change
This report presents the findings of the ‘Children’s Voices for Change’ project.
A rights-based approach to understanding and implementing effective supports for children and pre-adolescents as victim-survivors of family violence.
Acknowledgements
Acknowledgement of Country
We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the first peoples and Traditional Owners and custodians of the lands on which we live, work and undertake our research. We pay our respects all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Elders, past, present and emerging. We also acknowledge the ongoing strength and resilience of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples, and the vital role of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander young people as leaders in their communities and across Victoria in addressing domestic, family and sexual violence.
Funding acknowledgment
Southern Cross University acknowledges the support of the Victorian Government. This research has been funded by the Victorian Government’s Family Violence Research Program – Phase 1 Grants Round, led by Family Safety Victoria (FSV).
Children and young people who generously shared their time, expertise, insights and experiences have made this research possible. We thank the 23 children and young people who participated in the Children’s Activity; Lachlan, Geordie and Xaydd who took part in the collaborative workshops to develop the Children’s Feedback Tool; and the Youth Advisory Group – Kirra, Tash, Liam and Millie – who continuously shared their wisdom and guidance throughout the project. We also thank the 320 practitioners who responded to the survey to share their perspectives and experiences working with children and young people; members of the Project Advisory Group – Aileen Ashford, Rachel Carson, James McDougall and Meena Singh – for their valuable practice insights and expertise that guided the design, delivery and outputs of this research
The Project
This report presents the findings of the ‘Children’s Voices for Change’ project, which applied a children's rights-based approach to understand what constitutes effective supports for children and pre-adolescents aged up to 13 years (referred to in this report as ‘children’) as victim-survivors of family violence in their own right.
This research project has engaged with children and young people as family violence experts by experience – as research participants, co-researchers and Youth Advisory Group members – to build a knowledge and evidence base that strengthens understandings of the diversity and distinctiveness of children’s experiences of family violence, and the effectiveness of services in meeting their needs.
The project reviewed existing research and analysed client data from The Orange Door, to understand children’s system pathways; surveyed practitioners who provide support services to children who have experienced family violence; conducted participatory research with children and young people who have accessed family violence support services in Victoria; and co-created a Children’s Feedback Tool through collaborative workshops with children and young people and practitioners.
Key Findings
Start listening. Don’t think you know. You can’t see us as victims in our own right unless you actually listen.
Molly, 11
5. Various systemic barriers to supporting children as victim-survivors in their own right effectively persist:
6. Services and systems must listen to, hear and understand children.
Children must be respected as capable of identifying and articulating their distinct family violence response and recovery needs, consistently with their evolving capacities and with appropriate direction and guidance.
Recommendations
There are 11 recommendations for consideration, to support the translation of the research findings into law, policy and practice. Click on the ▶︎ to explore each recommendation.
1. Youth Advisory Group
2. Specialised and targeted programs
3. Length of support periods
4. Capability-building for professionals
5. The Orange Door data collection
6. Cultural safety
7. Community awareness of family violence
8. Financial support and brokerage
9. Housing stability and crisis accommodation
10. Victoria Police practice resources
11. Children’s meaningful participation in family law decision-making
Study Design and Methods
This project was led by researchers from Southern Cross University (SCU), in collaboration with researchers from Swinburne University of Technology, and in partnership with Safe and Equal, and the Centre for Excellence in Child and Family Welfare.
The research was supported by a Project Advisory Group, comprising experts from across family violence and children’s rights policy, practice, research and advocacy; as well as a Youth Advisory Group, comprising four children and young people, aged 11 to 25, with lived experience of family violence, who were recruited through Berry Street’s Y-Change Lived Experience Program and Safe and Equal’s lived experience team.
Aims
1. To understand how children conceive their family violence response and recovery needs;
2. To identify supportive factors that facilitate meaningful engagement with children in a way that meets their needs and respects their evolving capacities;
3. To identify barriers to the development and operation of effective family violence support services for children as victim-survivors in their own right; and
4. To develop clear, practical capability-building resources to enable children’s meaningful, safe participation in family violence program design and service delivery, including measuring and monitoring the effectiveness of outcomes.
Research Questions
1. How do child victim-survivors of family violence currently engage with Victoria’s family violence service system? What are their pathways into and through the system?
2. Are there examples, across sectors and jurisdictions, of system responses that centre children in service design and delivery, that can inform the Victorian approach?
3. What do children identify as important in their family violence response and recovery needs?
4. What are supportive factors shaping, and barriers impeding, Victorian family violence service system responses to children as victim-survivors in their own right?
5. What ‘gaps’ exist between practice and what child victim-survivors identify as important and effective in meeting their needs?
6. How can a rights-based approach be used to inform the development and implementation of effective supports for children as victim-survivors, including needs assessment, service response and evaluation of outcomes?
A Children’s Rights-Based Approach
This research was informed by a children’s rights-based approach and children’s rights under the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC)
A children’s rights-based approach empowers and equips children to participate in decision-making processes about their family violence recovery and support needs, consistent with their evolving capacities and with appropriate direction and guidance.
It emphasises the strengths of each child, as well as the need for support services and systems to develop the capacity to meet their obligations to respect, protect and uphold children’s rights under the UNCRC (Article 4), particularly its four pillars:
The children’s rights-based approach informing this project is underpinned by four fundamental principles (Dimopoulos, 2022; Stalford, Hollingsworth & Gilmore, 2017; Tobin, 2009; Freeman, 2010):
1. Children are active subjects with distinct rights and interests.
2. Children people have evolving capacities for decision-making.
3. Children and young people need appropriate direction and guidance to exercise their rights.
4. Children and young people must participate meaningfully in decision-making about their family violence response and recovery needs.
Article 19 of the UNCRC provides for children’s right to be protected from family violence and to receive effective supports as victim-survivors.
Project Phases
Phase 1
Desktop and literature review and The Orange Door data analysis
Phase 2
Survey of practitioners
Phase 3
Children’s Activity
Phase 4
Children’s Feedback Tool
co-creation
Phase 1
Desktop and literature review and The Orange Door data analysis
A desktop and literature review of the evidence base in Victoria and other jurisdictions for meeting the needs of children as victim-survivors of family violence in their own right.
An analysis of client data from The Orange Door to understand children’s system engagement pathways. Aggregated referral and case data from The Orange Door were provided by FSV for children aged 0 to 13 years for each financial year from 2017-18 to 2021-22. The data included case numbers for children across all The Orange Door sites; case numbers by demographic factors; referral sources; and case closure reasons.
Phase 2
Survey of practitioners
An anonymous, online survey of practitioners working in a range of service settings in Victoria, to identify factors influencing the effectiveness of family violence support services for children. A total of 320 practitioner responses were received and analysed quantitatively and qualitatively.
Phase 3
Children’s Activity
Participatory research with children and young people who are victim-survivors of family violence, through an anonymous, online engagement activity developed together with the Youth Advisory Group. The Children’s Activity included multiple choice, open-text and interactive questions, such as ‘dragging and sorting’ boxes to rank items and selecting an ‘emoji’ face to represent feelings.
Phase 4
Children’s Feedback Tool co-creation
The research team hosted four online collaborative workshops with seven children and young people, to:
The CHANGE Children’s Feedback Tool is intended for use by services who work with children and young people who have experienced family violence, to facilitate their meaningful and safe feedback and to inform practice development and ongoing workforce capability-building priorities. The Tool brought together findings from all phases of the project, culminating in a distinct research output.
The Children’s Activity welcome video
What we know:
The existing knowledge and evidence base
Almost two-fifths (39.6%) of Australians have been exposed to domestic violence during their childhood (Mathews et al, 2023).
2.6
million
An estimated 2.6 million Australians have witnessed violence towards their parent by a partner before the age of 15 (ABS, 2023).
36%
In 2023, a child or children were present at 36.1% of family violence incidents attended by police in Victoria (CSA, 2024).
Family violence has profound impacts on children’s health, wellbeing and development. Known harms include an increased risk of:
But children are often invisible in the family violence service landscape. They are the ‘forgotten’ and ‘silent’ victims (RCFV vol II, 2016: 129). Research evidence and sector insights have exposed gaps in engaging directly with children and young people who have experienced family violence to understand:
There is an increasing imperative in Australian law, policy and practice to prioritise and embed the voices and lived experiences of children and young people in the design, delivery, monitoring and evaluation of family violence support services and systems.
The National Plan to End Violence against Women and Children 2022–2032 identifies the need to ‘[r]ecognise children and young people as victim-survivors of violence in their own right, and establish appropriate supports and services that will meet their safety and recovery needs’
(Department of Social Services, 2022: 21, 121).
Victoria’s family violence support service landscape for children
Victoria’s Royal Commission into Family Violence identified a lack of targeted, tailored and accessible services that respond to the distinct recovery needs of children and young people. Historically, specialist family violence services have focused on the safety and wellbeing needs of women, or women and their children as a single, unified entity. Australia’s National Children’s Commissioner has highlighted the need for more ‘child-specific services’ to support children and young people who have experienced family violence ‘to recover alongside their parent or carer’ (AHRC, 2021: 23).
Children experience unique forms of family violence relevant to their individual identities and circumstances. Different forms of violence and the relationship contexts in which it occurs have traditionally been understood in the context of intimate partner violence, perpetrated by men against women, with dependent children exposed. Yet children and young people also experience violence from parents, siblings and/or other family members, which requires a nuanced, intersectional understanding of the use of power and control (YacVic, 2024: 10).
Children who experience intersecting forms of marginalisation face additional barriers to accessing effective supports, which are created and sustained by cisnormative, heteronormative, colonial, ableist and patriarchal systems of power. This includes:
There has been progress made to recognise the distinct needs of children and young people as victim survivors of family violence in their own right following implementation of the Royal Commission’s recommendations. However, as Victoria’s Family Violence Rolling Action Plan 2020-2023 acknowledges, and the points below highlight, there is ‘still … a lot of work to do’ to translate this recognition into meaningful action (DFFH, 2020). Crucially, while several of these reforms have been designed to improve responses to, and outcomes for, all victim-survivors of family violence, there has been a limited focus on children specifically:
The evidence gap: data collection practices and underreporting
Capturing data on children and young people who are victim-survivors of family violence remains an ongoing challenge. Data deficiencies affect the ability to make evidence-informed decisions to improve service design and delivery (AIHW, 2022: 342).
Data collection practices often subsume children who are victim-survivors of family violence into the case records of their parent or guardian. Underreporting may also underlie many of the deficiencies that persist in system responses. Children and young people may:
Listening to children and young people’s own, unfiltered voices
The dominant conception of children in Australian society emphasises their vulnerability and dependence on adults (Dimopoulos, 2022; Varadan, 2019). Children are often treated as ‘secondary’ victims, or extensions of their parent (usually their mother) or caregiver.
This conception of children manifests in service contexts when adults underestimate children’s capacities (Toros, 2021; Moran-Ellis & Tisdall, 2019); when children’s views are not sought, listened to or heard (Duncan, 2018; Cossar, Brandon & Jordan, 2016); and through a protectionist instinct, to shield children from the ‘burden’ of decision-making and potential further trauma (Coyne & Harder, 2011).
Respecting children as victim-survivors of family violence in their own right demands an understanding of children as ‘active participant[s] in the promotion, protection and monitoring of their rights’ (CRC Committee 2006:[14]). The failure to seek, listen to and understand children’s direct, unfiltered voices about their family violence response and recovery needs exposes a significant gap in meeting those needs effectively.
What children and young people identify as important in their family violence response and recovery
Children and young people often want to share and discuss their experiences of family violence, safety and wellbeing (AHRC, 2021; Noble-Carr, Moore and McArthur, 2020; Moore et al, 2021).
Several studies that have engaged children and young people as family violence experts by experience, presented below, offer insights into what children and young people feel is important in their family violence recovery.
The overarching concern that emerges from these studies is that children and young people are inadequately or improperly engaged to understand their unique and diverse experiences. This includes recognising how experiences and support needs differ between children and adult victim-survivors, and also how support needs differ between children themselves, including within sibling groups.
These studies highlight a marked gap between what children and young people perceive to be important to their family violence response and recovery, and what existing service systems and models can provide.
Australian & International Research
The Orange Door Network: Children’s engagement pathways
The Orange Door is an integrated intake pathway for people experiencing family violence, or who need assistance with the care and wellbeing of children and young people. It seeks to assess a person’s risk and needs, conduct safety planning and facilitate crisis support. It also connects people to a range of services, including family violence services, child and family services, Aboriginal services, and services for perpetrators, which are collectively referred to as its ‘core services’.
This analysis addresses the number of cases for children aged 0 to 13 years across all The Orange Door sites by a range of characteristics recorded in the Client Relationship Manager (‘CRM’) system used across The Orange Door network. It also examines referral sources into The Orange Door and case closure reasons.
Cases for children
The Orange Door network has experienced year-on-year growth in total case numbers involving children aged 0 to 13 years between the 2017-18 and 2021-22 financial years.
Total Number of Cases for Children Aged Up to 14 Years
There has been no statistically significant change in the proportion of cases for children aged 0 to 13 years by age group between 2017-18 and 2021-22.
Case Numbers by Age Group
This growth is likely explained by the greater service capacity afforded by the staggered rollout of new The Orange Door sites and access points across Victoria (FSV, 2023). The COVID-19 pandemic may have also contributed to the increase in total case numbers for children during this period, consistent with recent research indicating an increase in adults and children reaching out to family violence service providers, including for the first time, during the pandemic (Carrington et al, 2021; Boxall et al, 2020; Pfitzner et al, 2020). Each age group has comprised approximately one-fifth of the total case numbers in each financial year.
Characteristics of children engaging with The Orange Door
Gender
Children aged 0 to 13 years who identify as male have represented a slightly greater proportion of cases in each financial year than children who identify as female
(2017-18: M=43.6%, F=40.1%; 2018-19: M=44.6%, F=42.4%; 2019-20: M=45.5%, F=42.0%; 2020-21: M=48.9%, F=45.9%, 2021-22: M=48.9%, F=46.1%)
Aboriginal Status
Children who identify as Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander are significantly overrepresented in The Orange Door’s case numbers.
Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children have comprised between 8.2% (in 2017-18) and 11.2% (in 2018-19 and 2020-21) of total cases for children aged 0 to 13 years. This is disproportionately high relative to the 1.8% of the overall Victorian population, and the 5.7% of the overall Australian population, in this age group identifying as Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander (ABS, 2021).
Culturally and linguistically diverse (CALD) status and disability status
Total case numbers for children aged 0 to 13 years by CALD status and disability status demonstrate a significant number of ‘unknown’ cases, particularly between the 2017-18 and 2020-21 financial years.
During this period, the proportion of ‘unknown’ cases was between 82.9% and 84.5% for CALD status, and between 88.0% and 92.2% for disability status.
The proportion of ‘unknown’ cases reduced markedly in the 2021-22 financial year , to 62.6% for CALD status and to 71.1% for disability status.
This decrease may reflect The Orange Door’s ongoing efforts to improve data collection about language spoken at home, disability status and country of birth, coupled with enhancements to the CRM to focus on ‘increasing the quality and quantity of data collection on diverse communities with an emphasis on CALD and LGBTIQA+ communities and clients with a disability’ (FSV, 2023).
Children’s pathways into The Orange Door
Most common pathways into The Orange Door by referral source
1. Police reports
Referrals come directly from Victoria Police when there has been a reported incident of family violence, known as an ‘L17’.
2. Other professionals
Including registered community organisations that provide family services tailored to children and young people as part of their service offerings.
3. Child Protection
4. Self-referrals
Clients make direct contact with The Orange Door themselves. However, the data do not distinguish between a self-referral made by a child and a self-referral made by the child’s parent.
Data limitations:
Children’s pathways through
The Orange Door
Pathways through The Orange Door for children are based on five key case closure reasons
The Orange Door connected the client with the service system for further support, and may have also provided other services as part of an interim response.
The client received a service delivered directly by The Orange Door (e.g. a targeted or brief intervention such as brokerage), or the client may have already been engaged with support services and The Orange Door did not actively connect the client with the service system.
(1) the client declines an offer of any service from The Orange Door; or (2) the client initially engages and then advises that they no longer want support; or (3) the client initially engages but then relocates and does not agree to be transferred to their new catchment area; or (4) the client initially engages and then is no longer contactable (after the required contact attempts are made). A client may disengage at any point in the service continuum.
Case closure reasons with small proportions, including where the service is no longer required, the client has transferred to another area, contact with the service is deemed unsafe or inappropriate, a case has been created in error, or the client is deceased.
Engagement with the service system has been the most common pathway through of The Orange Door network for children. This client outcome reflects the continuing importance of closely integrating The Orange Door network with the broader family violence support service network (PwC, 2018; VAGO, 2020).
‘Client declined or disengaged’ has experienced the clearest and most consistent growth amongst the five client outcomes between 2017-18 and 2021-22, from 10.6% of total cases when The Orange Door commenced operation to 23% of total cases by the fourth quarter of 2012-22.
Practitioner Insights
This section presents the findings of a survey of 320 practitioners in Victoria who provide support services to children aged up to 13 years who have experienced family violence.
Practitioner and service characteristics
Do you work for a specialist family violence service?
Almost one third (101/319 = 31.7%) of practitioners worked for a specialist family violence service.
For non-specialist family violence practitioners who selected ‘Other’ and described the nature of their service, the most common descriptors were:
Over half (201/313 = 64.22%) of practitioners worked mainly in metropolitan Melbourne.
Hume Moreland
14 (4.79%)
North Eastern Melbourne 33 (10.54%)
Outer Eastern Melbourne 32 (10.22%)
Inner Eastern Melbourne
28 (8.95%)
Southern Melbourne
31 (9.9%)
Bayside Peninsula
63 (20.13%)
A majority of practitioners (195/318 = 61.3%) indicated that their service supported children aged up to 13 years who have experienced family violence ‘very often’.
Very often (support children 75-99% of the time)
Sometimes (support children 50-74% of the time)
Our only cohort (support children 100% of the time)
Rarely (support children less than 50% of the time)
Specialised programs for children
Overall, 38.4% (123/320) of practitioners indicated that their service had programs specifically designed for children aged up to 13 years who have experienced family violence.
These programs included individual counselling, group work programs, dyadic therapeutic programs, art therapy, play therapy, fun buddies and programs such as Beyond the Violence, Strength2Strengh, Pathways to Resilience, and Yarning About Family.
Practitioners who work for a specialist family violence service were more than twice as likely to indicate that their service provided child-specific programs than practitioners who do not work for such a service.
Practitioners who responded ‘Yes’ to the question, ‘Does your service provide any programs specifically designed for children (aged 0 to 13 years) who have experienced family violence?’ | |
All practitioners | 38.4% |
Work for a specialist family violence service | 61.4% |
Do not work for a specialist family violence service | 27.9% |
Work for an ‘other’ service | 26.4% |
Training to work with children
Just over half of practitioners (173/318 = 54.4%) had undertaken internal, external or accredited training within the last 12 months to work with children aged up to 13 years who have experienced family violence.
Practitioners commonly referred to MARAM training, organisations such as Safe & Together, the Australian Childhood Foundation, Anglicare, Emerging Minds, Blue Knot and Berry Street.
Within the last 12 months, have you undertaken any internal, external or accredited training to work with children (aged 0 to 13 years) who have experienced family violence?
Seeking feedback from children
Less than half of practitioners (144/315 = 45.7%) indicated that their service asks children aged up to 13 years for feedback about their service experience.
Does your service specifically ask children (aged 0 to 13 years) for feedback about their experience of your service?
Most common methods for collecting feedback from children:
Elaborating on these feedback methods, practitioners referred to:
A number of practitioners indicated that feedback from children was provided through an adult, such as the child’s parent or carer or case worker:
They can voice their feedback to their parents, who can then pass on the feedback to me … [Practitioner 269]
Through their carers and through their case manager [Practitioner 191]
Some practitioners identified non-verbal or play-based methods to facilitate feedback through practitioner observations and creating a safe space for children to express themselves:
Children can provide feedback by monitoring their interaction with parent and workers. Children often display feedback through their actions and responses to activities provided for them. The environment has been designed to allow the child to explore freely or with guidance. The child often engages in their own interest which then gives the workers the opportunity to observe and gain feedback on their likes and dislikes. After children have settled in, guided play is provided with supported staff and parent that then allows parent and worker to observe child's feedback [Practitioner 157]
Several responses suggested that the onus is placed on the child to proactively engage to offer feedback:
Children are … told they can provide feedback to their counsellor or via their parent/carer any time [Practitioner 237]
Children are encouraged to provide feedback throughout therapeutic interventions verbally, and are able to engage in a complaints process where desired [Practitioner 162]
For a small number of practitioners, the child’s age was perceived as a barrier, or the child’s ‘age and stage’ determined whether particular feedback opportunities would be provided:
Depending on the age of the child. Verbal and preverbal responses are collected [Practitioner 253]
We only work with children up to the age of 4
[Practitioner 152]
When at an appropriate age and stage, young people fill out self-report strengths and difficulties questionnaires, which reflect their feelings around the service and their progress [Practitioner 162]
For many practitioners, feedback from children was sought only at the conclusion of their service engagement, via a ‘closure session’ or end of service evaluation form or annual survey. Actively seeking and encouraging ongoing feedback from children and young people throughout their service engagement was not common.
Some practitioners noted that feedback forms were provided to the family (that is, the adult members) engaging with their service, not specifically to the child:
During appointments with the whole family, children might be asked to reflect on any changes they have noticed in family life since service delivery began. Risk assessment would be made before asking children to speak about this, particularly if [person using violence] is present [Practitioner 139]
Feedback form provided to family at the end of service. Complaints form provided at commencement of service to family. Upon reflection these should both be provided specifically to the young person as well [Practitioner 319]
Nine practitioners acknowledged seeking feedback from, and listening to, children about their experience of services as a service limitation:
While we seek to support children, we currently don't run groups aimed at their age group, and feedback mechanisms are more adult friendly. Adolescents are a huge service gap [Practitioner 22]
We rarely hear back about the children's experiences unless the children are connected to their own worker (such as a counsellor or a teacher) and we are actively seeking feedback from them. We often don't hear from the children away from their parents so we rely on observation, child protection reports and the parents’ opinion on what the children want and need
[Practitioner 144]
Features of effective service responses
Practitioners were asked to reflect on what their service does well to support children aged up to 13 years who have experienced family violence.
Collaboration and Referrals
The feature most commonly cited by practitioners was the strength of their service’s collaboration and referral networks:
We partner with services who have specialised [family violence] knowledge either through direct referrals or secondary consults [Practitioner 66]
We will work holistically with other services/schools that are supporting the children aged 0 - 13 years old
[Practitioner 106]
Referrals to other supports. Building rapport, assisting with navigating the legal system [Practitioner 101]
Trauma-informed Practice
The use of trauma-informed processes and perspectives was also reflected on positively by 34 practitioners:
We are incredibly good at having a trauma-informed developmental lens around children's experiences to help them heal from their experiences of trauma [Practitioner 130]
We're a specific trauma-informed therapeutic service: gathering voice of the child; systems work to highlight child's experience/voice; undertaking individual, family and dyadic work with parent/child, to restore the relationship/attachment after the ruptures [family violence] causes; write therapeutic narratives/lifestory representations of their experiences with them; trauma processing, etc [Practitioner 257]
Safe Spaces
Some practitioners reflected that their service provides a safe space for children to talk about sensitive issues that they might not otherwise feel comfortable sharing or discussing, while others positively described their service’s risk assessment and safety planning:
Offering a safe space for children to connect with others and find new ways of managing any ‘big’ feelings [Practitioner 303]
Our service works directly with children and offers a safe space for children to safety plan and speak about their experiences with family violence
[Practitioner 88]
Child-centred Practice
There were 76 references broadly to child-centric approaches, including services prioritising the needs of children and conceiving them as victim-survivors in their own right, and advocating for children’s voices to be heard and centralised:
Ongoing understanding and reflection on how childhood experiences of family violence impacts the development and future relationships of adolescents, and that young people are victim-survivors in their own right [Practitioner 313]
We usually make sure that children know that their voice is very important to us and want their input, making time for a private space that they feel comfortable sharing [Practitioner 134]
While 41 practitioners identified listening to children’s voices as something that their service does well, one practitioner noted that this can vary from practitioner to practitioner:
It is dependent on the worker. Some workers are really good at placing the child at the center of the work but others focus on the parent. My service has lots of tick box forms to ‘capture the voice’ of the child but these are often done at closure and in a meaningless way [Practitioner 170]
Holistic Support for Families
Another commonly identified strength was the provision of holistic support to parents, carers and families, in addition to supporting children themselves. Twelve practitioners expressly mentioned that they are skilled at educating parents on the effects of family violence on children:
Working with parents to build their capacity and understanding of their children's needs and educating them about the impact of family violence, helping parents/carers be present, responsive and compassionate to children's needs
[Practitioner 83]
Five practitioners noted the strengths of dyadic therapy to rebuild or strengthen relationships between parents and children, after what one participant described as the ‘ruptures’ that family violence causes:
Our parenting support program has a play component that supports and encourages connection between mother and child. The program uses play as a way to rebuild their relationships and create positive memories. We also run therapeutic sessions, based on the individual needs of the clients that then supports the children through their parents
[Practitioner 157]
Barriers to effectively supporting children
Practitioners were asked to identify the barriers they face in effectively working with children who have experienced family violence.
Insufficient resources, time and experience
Over half of practitioners (106/195 = 54.5%) identified insufficient training, resources and time as barriers to supporting children who have experienced family violence.
Of this subset, over one quarter (30/106 = 28.3%) referred generally to system-wide resourcing and funding concerns:
Inability to respond in a timely way due to high service demand, insufficient access to suitable accommodation in crisis, shortage of staff in child protection - too many referrals re-directed to The Orange Door where there is significant risk to the immediate safety and long-term wellbeing of children [Practitioner 63]
Funding constraints. Services and families are keen to participate, demand is high, however, there is often a lack of funding to support the activities of this type of group work [Practitioner 253]
Training and experience emerged as another significant barrier. Almost half (94/206 = 45.6%) of practitioners considered that they lacked training or felt ill-equipped to adequately support children due to a lack of experience or confidence. Practitioners explained:
I have been in the therapeutic field for 5 years, supporting children who have experienced family violence and I have had to fund all of my own training. There is a significant gap in training available to staff … in this sector [Practitioner 161]
Having access to specific training for working with trauma related to family violence and children, often not in our budget range. We don't employ child therapists, it’s expected all counsellors work with adults and children but often they only have minimal training [Practitioner 22]
Being fearful of retraumatising them and not being trained well enough to interview [Practitioner 85]
One quarter (27/106 = 25.6%) of this subset of practitioners also specified their service time as barrier:
Support period is often too short to support the crisis stage, support the family to "leave" the [family violence] and then also support the emotional and mental health of both parents and child. Often, our support period is so brief that we cannot cover all bases adequately and access to services in our area is very challenging [Practitioner 216]
We all understand that we need to support children as well as adult victims. But in practice it is different, the worker sometimes needs to close a case in three months and report what goals were achieved. [It] seems like systems focus on quantity, not quality [Practitioner 47]
Our service is short term (3-6 months) and so we have limited time as practitioners to develop rapport and work therapeutically with children who have experienced violence [Practitioner 88]
We are funded for 40 hours of support. Not enough. A child who is in the process of healing after [family violence] needs a minimum of twelve months of ongoing support with a trusted practitioner who can work with the child and Mum [Practitioner 229]
Some practitioners expressed the view that MARAM was not being used optimally, or that they needed further training to better understand how to use it:
Better understanding of Child Protection role regarding MARAM and hearing voice of the child [Practitioner 148]
More education re: child/adolescent MARAM and implementation into services [Practitioner 203]
Lack of specialised services for children
Forty-one practitioners identified a lack of appropriate, child-specific referral options or programs – such as play therapy, art therapy, relational based family therapy, group programs, counselling and educational support – or difficulties accessing these services due to cost or long waitlists, to be a barrier to effectively supporting children who have experienced family violence:
There are limited services and long wait times for children to engage with services to address the trauma they have experienced … There are no services available for young people who go on to use violence in the home due to the example that has been set by a violent parent [Practitioner 177]
More opportunities for children to work in groups, as women and men do. Both adult groups have been found to be beneficial, peers can relate and challenge in ways that professionals cannot do [Practitioner 253]
Better access to specialist services in small rural regions … [Practitioner 170]
A related concern for 14 practitioners was a lack of access to children, who commented that standard ‘business’ hours largely overlapped with the standard school day:
For some practitioners, specialised programs and services are especially lacking for children with diverse needs, including children with disability and from culturally and racially marginalised communities:
Targeted services for children who have disabilities to help them to understand and process the trauma of [family violence] [Practitioner 207]
Greater funding and variety of programs (for CALD clients and clients with disability)
[Practitioner 243]
Six practitioners identified an age-based service gap for children with respect to programs and counselling services, with one noting:
A program specifically for that age bracket, it seems to be missed. There are programs for over 12 years old usually, but none below this age. Having programs or groups for the younger children would be a great advantage, as this is the time they start to move off the right path. It could be ideal in helping them [Practitioner 57]
We don't get to meet regularly with children as they will be at school during our home visits. [Practitioner 106]
Often limited hours that we can see the children e.g. office hours are 8.30am to 5pm but children are often at school for extensive amounts of this time and means they often have to miss school to attend sessions [Practitioner 211]
Barriers posed by parents/carers and children themselves
For 41% (80/195) of practitioners, the willingness and ability of children and/or their parent/carer to engage with the service affected their ability to provide effective supports.
Of these practitioners, over two-fifths (33/80 = 41.3%) reported that parents were sometimes unwilling or unable to consistently and meaningfully engage their children with the support offered:
Many practitioners also referenced a lack of parental understanding or acknowledgment of family violence and its effects upon children:
Parents/care givers lacking insight or not wanting their child to get support and putting it down to 'behaviours' or 'they aren't impacted’ [Practitioner 204]
Parents denying any family violence, means that the child sometimes does not recognise it either. Some children do not have the words to talk about it or even understand it as it is 'normal' for them [Practitioner 57]
A small but notable proportion (16/195 = 8.02%) of practitioners referred to children lacking trust or being fearful or uncomfortable about engaging with the service:
Children may feel afraid or distrustful of adults and may feel closed off and inaccessible as a result of experiences of violence or abuse [Practitioner 17]
[C]hildren are often guarded and fearful of being removed from their parents. This can hinder them being open to discussing fears and experiences
[Practitioner 159]
Engagement with children, sometimes blocked by parents or by reluctance to speak to services [Practitioner 136]
Parental mental health results in difficulty engaging in our service at times and high cancellation rates
[Practitioner 238]
Some practitioners noted that people using violence can be a significant barrier, including where parental consent is required for the child to access support, or by putting the child at risk through ongoing contact:
Consent from the perpetrator if they are having contact with the child is a significant barrier, the perpetrator will often sabotage the therapy process as a way of control [Practitioner 133]
[C]urrently a big number of children being refused service due to unsafe parent holding the consent to engage with a service or therapeutic work can't be provided due to ongoing safety concerns related to child contact with person using violence [Practitioner 25]
Barriers posed by the family law system
The family law court acts as a significant barrier - perpetrators often engage in financial systems abuse and counselling for children and mothers whilst going through family law court is often discouraged by their lawyers due to risk of documents being requested [Practitioner 133]
Ten practitioners raised family law system processes as a barrier. They identified delays, parenting orders requiring children to spend time with the person using violence, and consent required from both parents for the child to access support services, as further enabling abuse or manipulation:
[Court] decisions around ongoing contact with perpetrators that lack holding them accountable for the harm they have done to the non-offending parent's parenting capacity, and therefore their children. If the parent isn't a primary carer court does not always insist they engage in programs, before getting contact. After time passes, in some cases court can overlook the severity of violence a perpetrator caused, and place child with perpetrator of intimate partner violence, if non-offending parent can no longer undertake care [Practitioner 257]
Service system reforms needed
Practitioners were asked to reflect on reforms required to the service system to ensure that children and young people are supported as victim-survivors of family violence in their own right.
Increased funding and resources
Almost half (84/169 = 49.7%) of practitioners suggested an increase in funding and resources for the family violence sector.
Practitioners sought an increase to the size of the workforce and more funding to improve the quality and timeliness of service responses:
More funding/resources for more on the ground family support workers to keep up with the demand/complexities (intersectionality of the [family violence], mental health and [alcohol and other drugs] concerns, intergenerational trauma) of cases that are coming through from The Orange Door. Currently there is pressure to close cases to pick up more cases/or holding higher caseloads impacting on quality of service provided to victim/survivors/children [Practitioner 125]
More staff, more hours, more money [Practitioner 129]
Quicker distribution of brokerage to help them start over or access emergency accommodation whilst homeless [Practitioner 46]
More family violence case management funding and linked therapeutic programs directly for children, better accommodation options for families, more staff on the ground in all areas [Practitioner 63]
Reforms to the family law system
The family law system was identified as an area ripe for reform by 16% (27/169) of practitioners, who commented upon how the issue of family violence is approached when making parenting orders following parental separation:
Inquiry into family law proceedings that continually allow perpetrators to have contact with their children despite high levels of family violence occurring. There is an inconsistency with decision making and bias with report writers completing child impact reports across all matters [Practitioner 222]
Significant delays in the court system place great risk. If a mother tries to stop their children from going due to [family violence], then they are in breach [of parenting orders], and this goes against the mother trying to protect their child [Practitioner 204]
A commonly-suggested reform in this context was to listen to children’s voices and to recognise them as a key stakeholder in family law matters and related processes:
[C]hildren to have a greater voice when it comes to parenting agreements and giving them greater rights. Many children I've worked with have expressed not wanting to see the parent who has used to violence due to fears, or ongoing abuse. The … courts have not responded, and the child is forced to continue to see this parent. The children have been subjected to ongoing violence which may on paper not be deemed 'appropriate for police intervention i.e withholding food, psychological abuse and manipulation, using heating and cooling as means of control [Practitioner 204]
Holding perpetrators more accountable and allowing a child’s voice to be considered when an IVO matter is being applied for or during family court hearing [Practitioner 160]
Reforms to police processes for protection orders
Some practitioners also suggested improvements to how Victoria Police issue family violence intervention orders:
Police need to ensure that all children are listed as protected persons when applying for IVOs. Ensure that children are listed on all family violence police reports [Practitioner 121]
Reforms to Victoria police - often issuing full [intervention orders] to young people using violence leads to further exclusion and isolation and further perpetuates the cycle [Practitioner 120]
Specialised programs for children
Almost one-fifth (30/169 = 17.6%) of practitioners referred to increasing the emphasis on children in the system, particularly through access to specialised, tailored services:
I would advocate for immediate crisis and long-term child specific counselling or therapeutic services that allow children to safely understand their experiences and complex feelings about their family members and relationships [Practitioner 53]
[M]ore range of programs that can support the children where they are at (e.g. if it's not the time for therapeutic counselling or clinic based support, could there be some level of outreach support or in-school support provided?) [Practitioner 114]
Improved collaboration, information-sharing and community awareness
A small proportion (12/169 = 7.1%) of practitioners suggested improved collaboration and information-sharing across the service system:
More open collaboration between services; schools, Child Protection, police, medical and family services [Practitioner 103]
Greater collaboration between agencies and department regarding the importance of responding appropriately to children who have experienced family violence [Practitioner 212]
The importance of education and enhanced community awareness of family violence and its impacts on children was also highlighted, particularly as a preventive strategy. Some practitioners suggested that all professionals who work with children beyond the family violence context, such as in school and early childhood settings, should also receive family violence training:
Supporting child care, kindergarten, primary schools with family violence identification as they can be the first point of contact for young children [Practitioner 121]
Mandated professional development regarding child mental health and around trauma informed care in all childhood settings including kinder, primary, early childhood care and playgroups. This would enhance all practitioners’ awareness and knowledge of childhood mental health issues and trauma informed care approaches to support children impacted by family violence [Practitioner 256]
Notably, however, one practitioner suggested that the sector is suffering from ‘reform fatigue’:
The sector is experiencing reform-fatigue in the family violence space. My team are still grappling with the changes that MARAM and the FVISS and CISS have introduced [Practitioner 104]
Children’s Needs and Experiences
This section presents the findings of an online, interactive Children’s Activity completed by 23 children and young people in Victoria with lived experience of family violence in the research project. It presents the findings regarding participants’ family violence response and recovery needs, followed by their experiences of family violence support services in Victoria. Finally, children and young people’s suggestions for improving Victoria’s family violence service system are discussed.
About the children and young people
The 23 children and young people who participated in the Children’s Activity were between 7 and 25 years old.
How old are you?
Almost half of participants (47.8%, n=11) identified as female, just over one third (34.8%, n=8) identified as male, and 13% (n=3) identified as non-binary. One participant did not disclose their gender identity. Only one participant (4.3%, n=1) identified as Aboriginal.
Only one participant (4.3%, n=1) indicated that they ‘sometimes speak English and sometimes speak another language at home’.
How do you identify?
Are you Aboriginal or Torres Straight Islander?
How often do you speak English in the home you live in most or all of the time?
Over half of the children and young people (13/23 = 56.5%) disclosed that they have a disability, chronic health condition or mental health condition. Of the 13 participants who disclosed a disability or health condition, over half (53.8%) were aged 16 to 25 years, almost two-fifths (38.5%) were aged 11 to 15 years, while one was below 10 years of age (7.7%).
Do you have a disability, chronic health condition, or mental health condition?
The majority of participants lived with their mother (52.2%, n=12), or with their mother in addition to other family members, including sibling(s) (21.7%, n=5), or with both mother and father (or stepfather) (17.4%, n=4). One participant lived with their partner and one participant lived with their housemate.
Who do you live with most or all of the time?
Almost half of these children (6/13 = 46.2%) listed two or more co-occurring disabilities or conditions:
All participants who identified as non-binary (n=3, 100%) disclosed that they had a disability or health condition; as did half of the male participants (4/8 = 50%) and over half of the female participants (6/11 = 54.5%).
The Children’s Activity also asked participants what they like to do in their spare time.
Word cloud of most popular responses
Submited artwork from a participant
I like to play with animals! I am a big animal lover and I love to listen to music on walks [Anita , 17]
Playing Roblox, doing my hobbies like gymnastics, spending time with mummy [Angelica, 10]
Editing videos, playing video games and watching anime [Xavier, 10]
Reading, music, art, crotchet, play games, see friends and boyfriend [Gabby, 18]
I am constantly painting and creating art to express my inner urge for creation – it helps me to calm down and feel good [Casey, 12]
What children and young people need to feel safe and well
Participants were asked to reflect on and list five things that currently make them feel safe and happy in their life, and five things they need to feel safer and happier. The questions from the survey is extracted below.
Explore the particpants responses to both questions with the word clouds below. Drag the bar in the middle to the left and right.
Relationships and connection
Relationships and connection with family, friends, a partner or pets, were identified by all children and young people as something that made them feel safe and happy in the present.
Participants most commonly named:
16 participants listed a family member, friend or partner as most important for their current safety and happiness: and half of these participants (n=8) specified their mother. A further five participants referred to their family, including spending time with and dining with them, and their family being healthy.
Interpersonal relationships were also identified by over three-quarters of children and young people (18/23 = 78.3%) as something they required to feel safer and happier. Some participants named a particular person or relationship, such as a parent, sibling, friend, boyfriend. Others commented on the need for improvements in the nature and duration of, and overarching conditions enabling, these relationships: ‘Quality time with family’ [Anita, 17], ‘Spend more time with my mum’ [Angelica, 10], and ‘Just and fair circumstances for me and mum’ [Casey, 12].
Also prominent was the need for positive and stable relationships, which for some participants could be found beyond their current friends and family:
If I had other safe adults that felt just as good as my mother [Sam, 8]
Finding more friends that I relate to and trust. Be around people that I trust, like mum’s family [Angelica, 10]
Casey, aged 12, expressed a need for ‘agreement between my parents … Honesty and transparency with my parents’. A desire for better parent-child communication and agreement between a child’s parents is reflected in research with children and young people in separated families (Carson et al, 2018). Seven-year-old Amara poignantly listed one word as the most important thing for her to feel safer and happier: ‘Love’.
Physical security
Over one third (8/22 = 36.4%) of children and young people referred to a type of security or safety mechanism attached to their living situation as something that made them feel safe and happy in the present.
These included ‘living in a gated community’ [Sam, 8], a ‘pet guard dog’ [Amara, 7], ‘new locks’ [Anita, 17], a ‘phone with tracking … security cameras’ [Darius, 12], and ‘locking the front door’ [Isabelle, 20]. For [Oliver, 15], the person using violence complying with a family violence intervention order (FVIO) helped them to feel safe and happy.
Two participants listed ‘no police’ [Molly, 11] or ‘being away from police’ [Oliver, 15] as important to their present feelings of safety and happiness.
Half of participants (11/22 = 50%) identified home, their bedroom or an aspect of their home environment as important to their current safety and happiness.
While the absence of police was identified as important for two participants’ current feelings of safety and happiness, two different participants described protections afforded by police as something they sought to feel happier and safer, including ‘police check-ins’ [Malik, 12], and ‘police red flagged house’ [Jenny, 17].
For some, ‘home’ was connected to safety and being away from their perpetrator, while for others, it was a place of comfort, privacy and stability: ‘Being safe at home and away from him’ [Molly, 11]; ‘Having a home in a safe community’ [Sam, 8]; ‘Stability with where we are living. Certainty in my life’ [Oliver, 15].
A need for greater physical safety and security was identified by over half of participants to feel safer and happier (13/23 = 56.5%).
Some were again physical items, including ‘Cameras around the house’ [Arthur, 15], ‘Locks on doors. Lights at night’ [Jamie, 21] and ‘Phone with GPS’ [Darius, 12]. Others revealed children and young people’s deep feelings of fear and a desire to relocate, or to have ‘dangerous’ people dealt with appropriately:
For my abuser to be locked away. Having a different car. Moving house [Hannah, 16]
Moving house again so dad doesn't know and can't find us again [Tariq, 11]
Housing Stability
The need for changes to and/or stability in their living situation also emerged as an unmet need for almost half of participants
(11/23 = 47.8%).
This manifested in wanting to remain with one parent or in the same house, to move to a new house, or to live with their partner: ‘If I could stay with my mother all of the time’ [Sam, 8]; ‘Living in one house. Living without fear’ [Darren, 13]; ‘Living with my boyfriend. Moving homes’ [Isabelle, 20]. Rowena, aged 25, alluded to being homeless, seeking ‘a roof over my head’.
Health and wellbeing
Hobbies
A hobby or activity was something that made half of participants (11/22 = 50%) presently feel safe and happy. These hobbies included musical theatre, games, music, playing sports, writing poetry, reading, drawing and art.
Almost one third of participants (7/23 = 30.4%) listed various hobbies and activities as significant for their improved safety and wellbeing, including drawing, sports, access to art classes and supplies, playing games, going for drives, and ‘a lead in the [theatre] production next year’ [Zahra, 16].
Five participants described health and wellbeing-related activities to be crucial to them feeling safe and well in the present. These included ‘nourishing my body and eating well … sleeping well … being active’ [Gabby, 18], ‘eating’ [Kevin, 16], ‘walking’ [Jamie, 21], and ‘being healthy’ [Hannah, 16].
Children and young people co-analysing the data with the research team highlighted that healthy eating is not necessarily, or exclusively, related to a focus on improved health and wellbeing. It may also expose a child’s specific experiences of abuse and/or neglect, such as an irregularity of meals due to financially abusive or controlling behaviours (Johnson et al, 2022; Morais et al, 2024; McKay and Bennet, 2023; Laurenzi et al, 2020).
A higher proportion of participants (10/23 = 43.5%) identified the need to improve their health and wellbeing in order to feel safer and happier.
For some, the focus was on their physical health: ‘Get enough sleep. Get outside. Eat a balanced diet’ [Gabby, 18]; ‘Eat healthier’ [Anita, 17]. Others referred to strategies for improving their mental and emotional health and wellbeing, including ‘calm self when exposed to triggers’ [Gabby, 18], ‘a formal BPD diagnosis and a psychiatrist’ [Zahra, 16], ‘regular therapy’ [Hannah, 16] and ‘less stress’ [Darren, 13].
For two participants, it was not only their own health and wellbeing that was important to their improved safety and wellbeing, but also that of their family members.
Oliver, aged 15, wanted ‘Mum to be healthy’ and Isabelle, aged 20, commented on ‘My family being happy’. These responses are consistent with research findings that children who are victim-survivors of family violence may feel anxiety for others, particularly their mother and siblings. They may also take on the burden of adult tasks and responsibilities or a ‘protector’ role in the family, including intuitively putting in place measures to keep their family members safe (DVSM, 2017: 11; Fitz-Gibbon et al, 2023).
Physical possessions and comfort
Six participants identified specific physical possessions from which they derive comfort or pleasure in their current circumstances of feeling safe and well, including their bed sheets, mobile phone, drawing book, teddies, books and comfortable clothes. These items may offer a level of psychological safety for children who have experienced family violence, representing stability and comfort during a period of uncertainty (Fehlberg et al, 2018). Three participants described specific items that would offer them a sense of comfort and refuge and enable them to feel safer and happier: ‘Eating vanilla wafers. Sleeping with a heat pack’ [Lisa, 11]; ‘Oversized clothes’ [Jamie, 21]; and ‘My phone’ [Tariq, 11].
Financial security
The need for greater financial security was also important for over one quarter of participants to feel safer and happier in their lives (6/23 = 26/1%).
Two participants referred to employment for themselves and/or their parent: ‘Getting a job’ [Hannah, 16] and ‘Mum having a job’ [Oliver, 15]. One participant referred generally to ‘money’, and three specifically identified ‘food’ or ‘food and supplies’. Sam, aged 8, expressly linked the personal importance of being ‘rich’ with greater stability and safety in their living situation:
Being rich so that we can buy a house and staying with my Mum. Being rich so that we can buy a house so that we never have to move. Being rich so that we can buy a house.
Support networks
The need for additional, tailored support – including for mental health and schooling – also emerged strongly as an unmet need for over one quarter of participants (6/23 = 26.1%).
Children and young people shared that they sought ‘Help with school attendance’ [Zahra, 16], ‘people surrounding me who support me‘ [Darren, 13], ‘having mental health support’ [Anita, 17] and ‘regular therapy’ [Hannah, 16].
Autonomy and choice
A small but notable number of participants (4/23 = 17.4%) sought greater autonomy and support to enable them to live their life in accordance with their own views, wishes and needs. They identified increased agency in their schooling, more options to engage with peers, and more freedom to make their own decisions:
Going to the choice of school I want that makes me feel safe [Charlie, 12]
People supporting me with my choices. Have more places to go to do free activities with other kids [Angelica, 10]
Family violence support services accessed by children and young people
The age of participants when they accessed support for family violence ranged from under one year to 16 years.
Participants were also asked to share, ‘When you got that help’. The framing of this question led to several different interpretations. The trusted adult of one participant noted: ‘This adult is unsure of the question. Is this asking what year we got help? Or is this a prompt? We are a neuro-diverse household that requires precise instructions.’
Eight participants provided the year they accessed support, which ranged from 2016 to 2023. Five participants stated their age, while another listed their school years. Six participants described the situation that led to them accessing family violence support, with five of these participants identifying their or their sibling’s father as the person using violence:
Participants identified a total of 21 different services from which they received support. Twelve participants listed more than one service. The support services included specialist family violence, health, housing and homelessness, legal, police, child and family, child protection, and counselling and mental health. The most commonly accessed support services were The Orange Door (n=5), police (n=5), and counselling (n=4).
My little brother’s dad put my mum in hospital [Malik, 12]
When my dad gave me a black eye and put my mum in hospital by strangling her [Darius, 12]
When I was 11 and my dad put me and mum in hospital [Arthur, 15]
Because dad found out where we lived and tried to break in and hurt us again [Tariq, 11]
My dad still caused problems [Amara, 7]
During legal proceedings around custody from a parent with FVIO against them [Charlie, 12]
Children and young people’s experiences of family violence support services
The Children’s Activity presented participants with 15 prompts that enabled them to share their experiences of family violence support services they had accessed in Victoria. Each prompt had three response options: ‘Yes’, ‘No’ and ‘Sort of’. Participants could select more than one option for each prompt. This occurred for 11 out of 15 prompts, although all 11 multiple responses were provided by just two participants, both of whom had accessed multiple services. Each prompt was accompanied by an open text box that enabled participants to elaborate on their response.
Feeling welcome
The majority of responses (62.5%, n=15) indicated children and young people felt welcomed by the service.
Oliver, aged 15, added, ‘It was a bit tick the box’. Notably, two children and young people described overall positive experiences:
They were very friendly [Xavier, 10]
They were all very helpful during a really scary and confusing time [Hannah, 16]
They welcomed me and go to know me
Cultural awareness
Participants were asked whether the service understood their culture and where they came from. While over three quarters of responses (76.2%, n=16) were positive, this finding must be contextualised by the low uptake of the Children’s Activity by children from culturally and racially marginalised communities. Two participants did not respond to this statement because it was ‘not really applicable to me’ [Oliver, 15] and ‘I don’t think I have a culture’ [Jamie, 21].
Molly, aged 11, who identified as Aboriginal, described significant limitations in the ability of services to meet her cultural needs, including due to their failure to see her as separate to her mother:
They understood my culture and where I come from
We just want to be safe. We don’t want police and child protection or stupid people getting clap sticks when they find out you’re Aboriginal when your mob don’t even use clap sticks or do dot painting. They think we are extensions of our mums but we aren’t. She’s not Nyoongar but I am.
Respect for gender identity
The vast majority of responses (90.9%, n=20) indicated participants considered the service respected their gender identity.
Although Molly, aged 11, described gender stereotypes as marring her service experience:
I’m a girl but that doesn’t mean I like girly stuff so trying to get me to talk by talking about makeup and stuff like that just made me mad.
They respected my gender and how I identify
Accommodating disability needs
Participants were asked whether the service understood what they needed because of their disability. While nine participants (39.1%) indicated that they do not have a disability, just over half of the remaining responses to this prompt were positive (n=8, 57.1%).
Sam, aged 8, added: ‘I need safe housing, I need life to be predictable’. Instability in living circumstances may be particularly challenging for children who are neurodiverse – including those who have ASD and/or ADHD, as Sam disclosed – for whom structure is a source of comfort (McLean, 2022).
They understood what I ndded because of my disability
Feeling comfortable and safe
Only half of responses (50%, n=13) indicated that children and young people felt comfortable speaking with the service. Sam, aged 8, exposed an assumption inherent in framing of the prompt itself: ‘I like the option not to talk. I prefer play.’
Just over half of responses (54.2%, n=13) attested to children and young people feeling safe in their service engagement.
Four responses (16.7%) were from participants who did not feel safe. They explained:
I felt safe with some of the people but not with housing. It does not matter how nice some people are if I am moving from one scary situation to another [Sam, 8]
At first I did [feel safe], but in the end what happened made me very scared and made me feel unsafe [Darren, 13]
I felt comfortable talking to them
I felt safe
Some participants reflected on services’ inability to ensure their safety. Lisa, aged 11, described being supported by the service to create of a safety plan, only to be left on their own to confront the person using violence:
They made a safety plan but I had to stand up to my dad on my own. That was scary. I got a safety plan but then had to do it all myself.
Feeling listened to and understood
Almost three quarters of responses (70.8%, n=17) indicated that children and young people felt that the service did listen to them.
However, two participants reflected with frustration on what they considered to be services’ failure to act, or that their words were seemingly manipulated:
After a while I got tired of them listening but not helping [Darren, 13]
They twisted what I said and left stuff out. They didn’t listen and kept saying what I had told them only it wasn’t what I had said, it was what they wanted me to say [Molly, 11]
Participants were also asked whether they felt that the service understood what had happened to them. Less than half of responses (48%, n=12) indicated that children and young people felt understood. Almost one third of responses (32%, n=8) to this prompt were negative.
The responses reveal a significant disjunct between children and young people’s experiences of feeling listened to, and their experiences of feeling heard, by family violence support services. While almost three-quarters (70.8%, n=17) of participants agreed with the statement, ‘They listened to me’, less than half (48%, n=12) felt that the service understood their family violence experience.
Several children and young people described feeling that services did not fully comprehend the gravity of their family’s unsafe situation:
I was scared at the time and didn’t feel I had much of a voice [Gabby, 18]
They understood the facts of what happened but not how it impacted me and what I need [Oliver, 15]
They listened to me
I feel like they understood what happened to me
Effectiveness of supports received
The majority of children and young people did not receive all the support they required. Almost half of responses (44%, n=11) indicated participants ‘sort of’ got what they needed, while over one third (36%, n=9) revealed they did not.
Seven participants who elaborated on their experience revealed concerns about service accountability to children as victim-survivors in their own right, service collaboration and cooperation, as well as broader systemic issues that impact children’s ability to access supports. Darren, aged 13, described deficiencies in services’ ability to work together to protect children’s safety and to ensure all stakeholders are informed of important risk information:
The services did not speak to each other. They did not speak to my school and they put my safety at risk. The services were unaware my dad was manipulating the police. The Orange Door didn’t speak to Kids Helpline. They didn’t work together. They didn’t speak to my school who were really unprepared. Most of all, nobody reported the police for protecting my dad. When the school called 000, the police didn’t attend, they just told the school to send us home with our dad.
Did you get what you needed from the support services?
Some participants described their service response as ineffective or insufficient in meeting their needs, including due to a perceived lack of understanding or inaction:
I got a safety plan but then had to do it all myself [Lisa, 11]
The service arranged counselling but it was really bad, so I stopped going because it was making everything worse [Molly, 11]
Agency and inclusion in decision-making
Less than one third of responses (31.8%, n=7) indicated that children and young people felt included in decisions being made.
Over half of participants (59.1%, n=13) felt that they had a sense of choice, as the service asked them what they would like to happen next. Darren, aged 13, added:
‘They gave me a plan and I just did it. I didn't know how badly it would end.’
They asked what I would like to happen next
I felt included in decisions that were being made
Accessing and understanding information
A majority of participants (95.7%, n=20) received an introduction to the service, either fully (‘Yes’ = 68.2%, n=15) or partially (‘Sort of’ = 22.7%, n=5).
But just over half of responses indicated that participants understood the information provided to them (56.5%, n=13)
Many children and young people were unclear about the support they would receive and how the services could and could not help them. Darren, aged 13, explained the gaps in their understanding:
‘I didn't realise they were putting me in a position to stand up to my dad. I was 10.’
They told me who they are and what they are
I understood who they were and what they do
I understood how the support services could and could not help me
Opportunity to ask questions
Almost three-quarters of responses (72.7%, n=16) indicated that participants were given the opportunity to ask questions. But a lack of trust prevented Molly, aged 11, from doing so:
I could have asked them questions, but I didn’t because I didn’t trust them. They think your mum is bad, you’re white and police are the good guys and they are wrong about everything.
I had the chance to ask questions if I wanted to
Disclosing information
Less than half of the children and young people had a sound understanding of the implications of their disclosures to the service.
58.4% of responses (n=14) indicated that they did not (29.2%, n=7) or only ‘sort of’ (29.2%, n=7) understood how the service would use the information they disclosed and who that information would be shared with.
I could have asked them questions, but I didn’t because I didn’t trust them. They think your mum is bad, you’re white and police are the good guys and they are wrong about everything.
I understood how they would use what I told them and who they would share it with
Improving services for children and young people who have experienced family violence
Children and young people were invited to suggest changes that would improve services for child victim-survivors of family violence. Their suggestions covered a range of systemic reforms and improved service practices.
Fill service system gaps
Improved access to services, reduced wait times, extended service periods, additional resourcing and reduced turnover of practitioners:
Still can't talk about previous experiences now. Wait list and options to psychologists greatly lacking. I couldn't stay in the area and there is a chronic lack of affordable counselling services where we are so still need help. Need much faster access to services [Charlie, 12]
Quicker action. Less wait time [Anita, 17]
Had to wait so long to be seen every time. [Services would be better if] I could see them when I needed it and workers didn’t leave [Isabelle, 20]
More time allocated to each victim
[Hannah, 16]
Someone available to ‘champion’ children’s rights in their service system interactions:
Speak to dad, don’t make children do it [Darren, 13]
Speak to police for me. Speak to my school. Speak to my dad for me [Lisa, 11]
Better collaboration, coordination and information sharing across the family violence service system:
‘All services to speak to each other’
[Darren, 13]
Listen, be patient and care
Actively listen to children, ask questions and provide individualised support, so that service responses are directed by the needs, wishes, views and experiences of children themselves.
Stop assuming. Listen. You can’t see us as victims in our own right unless you actually listen [Molly, 11]
‘Actually listen and follow the child’s wants for safety’ [Darius, 12]
‘Listen to our ideas more’ [Malik, 12]
‘Listening more. Understand me more’ [Zahra, 16]
‘Listen to kids … because we don’t make this stuff up’ [Arthur, 15]
‘Speak to children about what’s happening’ [Darren, 13]
Listening. Asking kids what they need to be safe. This would mean that it’s not assumed our parents know what we need and make care and support be more individual [Oliver, 15]
More empathetic supports, including practitioners who are patient and follow through with actions promised:
Support services need to make us feel like they care
[Isabelle, 20]
Be more helpful and more supportive [Zahra, 16]
Check in with us – don’t just say you will then don’t [Darius, 12]
Patience for clients to open up. Being patient with kids who are victims of family violence is necessary as in my case it took me years to find the courage to talk about my past and my feelings [Gabby, 18]
Provide practical supports to improve safety and wellbeing
Do more to help children and their family members feel safe:
Don’t make me stand up to my dad and then be alone with him [Lisa, 11]
Help us stay safe. More safety and help for my mum
[Darius, 12]
More protection for my little brother. Help my mum more. They promised they would keep us safe but he found us and hurt my mum and little brother even worse than first time [Malik, 12]
Provide support beyond the immediate situation of violence:
Support outside of crisis. Support to disengage with services
[Rowena, 25]
Give them more support with the struggles of normal life [Hannah, 16]
Free therapy for kids and mums who have gone through violence is very important [Isabelle, 20]
Offer immediate practical supports to increase a sense of safety:
Free camera sets ups for people who have been hurt and are scared [Arthur, 15]
Have a worker physically check in with you, once a day on the phone
[Jamie, 21]
Provide financial support, for immediate wellbeing and future opportunities:
Money help for mums when we need to move house or go into hiding
[Arthur, 15]
Money help to move as soon as it happened
[Jenny, 17]
More financial support. Family violence at a young age impacts kids for the rest of their lives if they aren’t given the opportunity to grow out of it and overcome it. People like myself who have had to stop working out of fear have received no financial support [Anita, 17]
More financial support for stability and less stress load. It would take stress off me and my mum [Casey, 12]
Offer child-inclusive spaces and activities
Provide better support in child-focused spaces, including at school, and improved access to child-friendly activities:
At school support, so that if I got triggered or upset I had someone to go to or somewhere to go that felt safe. Integrating fun activities in support would have helped me calm down and feel safer
[Gabby, 18]
More counselling services in school. Better spaces that are soundproof and kinder
[Charlie, 12]
Understand children’s experiences of family violence
Enhance understandings of children’s experiences of family violence and its impacts on their mental health and wellbeing.
More understanding of presentations [Rowena, 25]
Understanding of how past experiences impact the present [Gabby, 18]
More understanding of what kids feel after violence
[Jenny, 17]
Get it that police and child protection aren’t good and scare us. [Molly, 11]
Provide resources and support to medical professionals and teachers to improve their understanding:
More information for schoolteachers. If teachers and school knew more about family violence they can help kids better [Arthur, 15]
Doctors who understand more [Malik, 12]
Improve police and criminal justice system processes
Children shared various negative experiences with police, including where police had seemingly ‘sided’ with the person using violence, where they were perceived to be lying about their experiences of family violence, and where police had failed to respond adequately to their situation.
The police were absolutely horrible. They were the worst part of everything we went through so by comparison the services were better because they didn’t take our perpetrators side or assume mum had coached us and that we were liars. Nothing can really change until the police change unless it’s possible to get help without police ever being told. I think people in the services mean well but police don’t. I’d like to see police kept away until services have dealt with all victims and have services advocate for victims with police so that we don’t have to deal with police or be interviewed unsupported the way we were. I was assumed to be a liar by police and when our perpetrator was convicted, no one apologised about that.
[Oliver, 15]
Nobody really thought about the possibility of things going wrong. What went wrong was police protected my dad. When the school called 000 police didn’t attend they just told the school to send us home with our dad. We were so scared. Report police when they don’t do their jobs. It means children won’t have to protect themselves and they’ll feel safer. [Darren, 13]
Police have to stop the bad guy finding the people that they hurt. They need to stop the bad guy from hurting us again. Why does my mum always have to move us? Why can't he be put in jail? He needs to stop hurting us, we have nothing wrong. Stop him from coming to school to find us.
[Tariq, 11]
They put dad on bail and he found out where we were living and tried to take my brother. They said they understand and are going to help us stay safe but he found us and we had to move again. Don’t let people who hurt people like kids out of jail [Darius, 12]
It took forever to get my dad charged, I felt like me and mum were not safe for a very long time [Arthur, 15]
Listen to children in the family law system
Angelica, aged 10, addressed the impacts of family law parenting orders on children and young people’s family violence response and recovery needs. Angelica reported living ‘50/50 between mum and dad’. Her care arrangements following her parents’ separation required her to spend time with her father, whom she did not experience as safe:
Tell the courts what we need and make them listen. Tell the courts we want to live with mum because dad’s scary. Help us to be safe. Some people don't understand, we need only people who are nice to kids. When nice people understand they can help us so we can be happy.
Discussion
Synthesis of the findings across all project phases has revealed key features of, as well as fundamental barriers to, effectively supporting children and pre-adolescents as victim-survivors in their own right in Victoria’s family violence service system.
The ‘CHANGE’ Guiding Principles
Six guiding principles – captured by the acronym ‘CHANGE’ – have been developed from the research findings across all project phases as features of effective supports for children who have experienced family violence. These principles embrace child-centred, trauma-informed and rights-based approaches to engaging with children in diverse service contexts. Click on each of the six guiding principles to learn more.
The ‘CHANGE’ Guiding Principles
1. Create space and time
Welcoming and inclusive spaces are vital to children feeling safe and comfortable in any service support environment (State of Victoria 2021:147; Kezelman and Stavropoulos 2019; Strand and Sprang 2018). The insights and experiences of children who participated in this research project reinforce the need for child-inclusive spaces, and for practitioners to dedicate time at the beginning of service engagement to build rapport and to understand how each child prefers to engage. There should also be space and time for the child to ask questions and provide meaningful feedback throughout their service engagement.
2. Hear the child
Listening to and hearing the child form a vital part of the ‘ongoing process’ of children’s participation, which includes ‘information-sharing and dialogue between children and adults based on mutual respect, and in which children can learn how their views and those of adults are taken into account and shape the outcome’ (CRC Committee 2009:[3]). In the family violence service delivery context, practitioners are advised that their ‘assessment will be more accurate and complete if children and young people have direct input’ (State of Victoria 2021:146).
While children who are victim-survivors of family violence may not wish to speak directly about their experiences (AHRC 2021; Arai et al. 2021; Callaghan et al. 2017), ‘hearing the child’ is understood expansively to include identifying children’s expressed views and wishes via play, facial expressions, body language and art (Chouinard et al. 2007). Children’s right to participation under Article 12 of the UNCRC places ‘the onus … on adults to identify, encourage and value, rather than dismiss’ the many different ways that children express their views (Lundy et al. 2019:400). Research has found that children and young people who do not feel heard and understood by family violence support services feel ‘invalidated, isolated and distrusting of the support options provided to them’ (Fitz-Gibbon et al. 2023a:20).
The practitioner survey findings reveal that seeking feedback from children about their service experience is not common practice, with less than half of practitioners (144/315 = 45.7%) indicating that their service does so. This is significant to highlight in light of the Child Safe Standards, which outline the actions organisations must take to keep children and young people safe, including:
Practitioner insights also show that where children do provide feedback, it is often moderated by an adult, such as the child’s parent, carer or case worker, usually at the conclusion of the service interaction. Practitioners emphasised the value of prioritising and centring children’s voices, reflecting a growing cultural understanding that listening to children is a fundamental feature of effective service provision.
However, the experiences of children participating in this project suggest there is still significant progress to be made for children to feel that their voices are adequately heard by family violence support services. For instance, Isabelle, aged 20, observed: ‘They didn’t write while I was talking.’ This observation underscores the importance of children and young people’s perception that services are actively listening to them, as well as practitioners being child-led when determining how to demonstrate they are hearing the child and their story. For Isabelle, such active listening took the form of their practitioner contemporaneously documenting their views and experiences during the service engagement.
3. Act on feedback
For a child to feel heard, adults must be responsive to the particular type of support the child needs, which may be action-oriented, rather than talk-based (Fitz-Gibbon et al. 2023a:31; Cossar et al. 2019). A number of participants in the Children’s Activity described their service response as ineffective or insufficient in meeting their needs due to perceived inaction. Lisa, aged 11, stressed: ‘I don’t just want to talk about what’s going on, I want real help.’ While the survey of practitioners has offered insights into services’ feedback-seeking practices and methods, further research is required to understand how services use children’s feedback – including to improve children’s service experiences, and to inform effective practice design, delivery and outcomes monitoring and evaluation. Implementation of the CHANGE Children’s Feedback Tool by services may provide a fruitful opportunity to examine this principle in action.
4. Navigate trust
The importance of developing and maintaining trust, so that the child feels safe to engage in support, is reflected in literature and practitioner guidance for services working with children (Cossar et al. 2019:5; Robinson et al. 2022:51; Houghton 2015; Warrington et al. 2017; Fitz-Gibbon et al. 2023a:29; State of Victoria 2021:146). Service follow-through on support promised is also crucial to maintaining trust, particularly for children engaged in child protection notifications or failed service interventions, who may lose confidence and hope that adults are capable of helping them to feel safe and well (Cossar et al. 2019).
Structural inequalities, discrimination and experiences of misidentification of the person using violence, mean that victim-survivors from marginalised communities may have an ingrained ‘mistrust of people who offer services based on concepts of protection or best interest’ (State of Victoria 2021:137).
The research findings reinforce that the establishment of trust can be facilitated through listening to and understanding the child and their experiences, and by being transparent about the boundaries of the support that the service can provide.
Children’s Activity participants described breaches of trust occurring across a range of settings, including in relation to privacy and information sharing; inaccurate understanding and/or depiction of their experiences of family violence; and police misidentification of the person using violence:
I did trust until they breached my privacy and then I didn’t trust [Oliver, 15]
My dad was a police officer. After this all happened, police protected him and blamed my mum. My mum told me police lied in court and she played me the court recording. I heard the police lie too. I don’t trust anyone anymore [Lisa, 11]
They lied to me and broke my trust because they weren’t actually trying to help us. Stop saying police are good. Also don’t say that we can trust them because that’s what every bad person says right before they prove that you can’t trust them. It’s the biggest red flag ever [Molly, 11]
As a young person co-analysing the Children’s Activity data with the research team explained: ‘Trust is a hard thing to build. It takes a long time but it can be destroyed in an instant. Just having one person you can trust is life-changing.’ These insights accord with the experiences of children and young people in Fitz-Gibbon et al.’s (2023a:17) study, who reflected on the impact that family violence continued to have on them forming trusting relationships. Practitioners surveyed in the present study identified that children who were fearful, uncomfortable or lacked trust – stemming from trauma connected to their experiences of family violence – impaired services’ ability to provide effective support.
5. Give choice and agency
The research findings have also emphasised the importance of choice for children who are victim-survivors of family violence: ‘Being able to choose something, when everything else is out of control.’ The loss of agency and control arising from family violence create compounding layers of disempowerment for children, causing them to feel that ‘adults ha[ve] taken away control of their safety and independence’ (Fitz-Gibbon et al. 2023a:35). In the family violence service context, this principle may manifest in giving the child meaningful opportunities to participate in decisions about their family violence response and recovery needs, consistently with their age and evolving capacities, and with appropriate guidance and direction (Dimopoulos 2022; Tobin 2009; Freeman 2010).
6. Explain enough and ensure understanding
For children to be able to participate meaningfully in service engagement and to make informed choices about what to disclose and to whom, they need sufficient, accessible information about the nature, purpose and scope of the support being provided to them. Such information should be appropriate for the child’s age, stage of development and level of understanding, and accommodate their communication preferences and needs (Stalford et al. 2013; Carson et al. 2018:85; Kaspiew et al. 2014:133; Save the Children 2021). Children must also understand what will be done with information that they share and its interplay with mandatory reporting obligations and child information sharing schemes (Victorian Department of Education 2023; FVRIM 2023:44).
The Children’s Activity responses have highlighted a significant disjunct between information provision and understanding. While a majority of participants (95.7%, n=20) received an introduction to their support service, just over half of responses (56.5%, n=13) indicated that children understood this information, and less than one third of responses (30.4%, n=7) indicated that children understood how the support service could and could not help them.
Systemic barriers to effectively supporting children
The research findings have revealed ongoing systemic obstacles that must be overcome for the CHANGE guiding principles to be implemented in practice.
An adult-centric system
The effectiveness of supports for children who have experienced family violence is frustrated by the fact that the family violence service system is not designed for them. The Children’s Activity responses have exposed a strong awareness amongst children and young people that the family violence service system does not see them as victim-survivors in their own right. Oliver (aged 15) and Darren (aged 13) described experiences of services interacting directly, and exclusively, with their parent or guardian:
I was an extension of my mum to literally everyone from the police to services. To be honest the services can’t really help us or see us as victims in our own right until the system changes and police and courts change.
The Orange Door only spoke to mum. The Orange Door didn’t speak to me directly. They need to speak directly to me [Darren, 13]
Children and young people in Fitz-Gibbon et al.’s (2023a:20, 23) study expressed similar frustrations about their feelings of invisibility in Victoria’s family violence service system, with little consideration given to how their risk profile and safety needs might differ from those of their protective parent. As a result, children and young people ‘overwhelmingly believed that system responses to family violence are neither designed nor carried out with children and young people in view’ (Fitz-Gibbon et al. 2023a:20). The findings of this project reinforce this conclusion.
The services accessed by participants in the Children’s Activity – including police, hospitals and specialist family violence services – reflect the ‘crisis’, adult-centric nature of family violence support. Practitioners remarked on the noticeable absence of programs specifically designed for children, to support them beyond the situation of crisis, such as counselling and therapeutic services. Services’ ability to meet children ‘where they are at’ in their family violence recovery journey requires a flexibility that is incompatible with fixed program requirements, which require practitioners to close their engagement within a set time period. The lack of child-specific and specialised referral options was also a significant barrier.
Group work was raised by several practitioners as a ‘missing piece’ in the family violence service system for children, given the value of peer relationships. As one practitioner explained, ‘peers can relate and challenge in ways that professionals cannot do’ [Practitioner 253]. Other studies (KPMG 2023; Noble-Carr et al. 2020) have similarly identified the value of non-professional supports, such as peer networks or lived experience support groups, for people who have experienced trauma and/or abuse.
Children and young people involved in this project similarly suggested more child-inclusive and safe spaces, including integration of ‘fun’ activities in support [Gabby, 18] and ‘more places to go to do free activities with other kids’ [Angelica, 10]. These suggestions accord with children’s ‘inclusion’, whereby adult-centric systems are adapted to accommodate children’s effective participation and to meet their distinct needs, rather than ‘integration’, which requires children to participate and receive support within pre-existing processes and structures (Daly 2017; McIntosh et al. 2008).
An insufficiently resourced system
The need for improved resourcing and funding of services to support children and young people effectively emerged strongly in the reform suggestions of both practitioners and children. As one practitioner articulated pithily: ‘More staff, more hours, more money’ [Practitioner 129]. Practitioners identified burgeoning caseloads and wait times, a lack of staff, increasing complexity of cases and a lack of access to specialised programs, as barriers to providing effective and timely responses to children. Concerningly, these systemic constraints were also experienced by children accessing service support, who called for reduced wait times and staff turnover, and longer service support periods. The observations of practitioners and children alike reflect case management support periods that are often inadequate to meet victim-survivors’ needs (Safe and Equal 2022:24).
The findings also reveal considerable concern amongst practitioners that they lack the skills, experience and confidence to support children effectively. Nearly one third of practitioners (53/189 = 28%) sought increased training and professional development to foster improved skills and confidence in applying strengths-based, child-centred and trauma-informed approaches in their practice. Children involved in the research similarly suggested improvements at the individual practice level, including for services to be ‘more helpful and more supportive’, more patient, to listen and ‘make us feel like they care’.
A lack of data and evidence to understand children’s distinct, unique needs
Analysis of The Orange Door data, while offering some broad insights into the characteristics and pathways of children, has highlighted that The Orange Door continues to lack ‘important information about the needs of children and how well hubs are supporting them’ (VAGO 2020:60).
Critically, there are no data available on the timeliness and effectiveness of The Orange Door sites’ engagement with children (CCYP 2019; VAGO 2020), although ‘designing and developing improvements to capture data on quality, timeliness, outcomes and clients awaiting a response from external service’ has been identified as a ‘focus’ for FSV (FSV 2023).
A further significant limitation is data collection practices that attach a child’s case to that of an adult. This limitation is consistent with recent Victorian research conducted by McCann et al. (2023:88) into family violence risk assessments and safety plans, which concluded that ‘data capture systems across services are not nuanced enough to view children as victim survivors in their own right’.
Understanding a child’s identity characteristics can inform an understanding of social structures that impact them, and barriers they may face in accessing effective support for family violence. This is the essence of an intersectional approach, which requires services to identify how these various characteristics ‘can be associated with different sources of oppression and discrimination, and how those intersections can lead to increased risk, severity and frequency of experiencing different forms of violence’ (Victorian Government 2021). This research project has encountered data limitations in relation to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children, children who are culturally and linguistically diverse, children with disability, and children who are gender diverse.
Children from racially and culturally marginalised communities
The significant overrepresentation of Aboriginal children in The Orange Door’s case numbers must be understood in the context of historic and ongoing impacts of colonisation, systemic violence, racism and family separation. Family violence disproportionally impacts Aboriginal children and young people (State of Victoria 2021:143; DSS 2022:42). The Orange Door data analysis has shown that police reports and child protection notifications comprise a significant proportion of referrals to The Orange Door. It is well-established that family violence is a key factor for Aboriginal children coming to the attention of child protection and youth justice systems (Morgan et al. 2022); and is the primary reason for Aboriginal children entering out-of-home care in Victoria (CCYP 2016:13). The response to Aboriginal children experiencing family violence is often to remove them from their families (Morgan et al. 2022), perpetuating intergenerational trauma (McGlade 2012). Evidence also reveals that fear of child removal remains a significant deterrent for Aboriginal and/or Torres Strait Islander women reporting or seeking support for family violence for themselves and their children, including from The Orange Door (Our Watch 2018; Yoorrook Justice Commission 2023:129–130.
No comprehensive data exist on rates of family violence experienced by newly arrived, migrant and refugee children and young people in Victoria (Centre for Multicultural Youth 2022; Lee and Cheung 2022), such that tailored responses that take account of their unique experiences and barriers to accessing family violence supports remain lacking. The number of cases in The Orange Door that are ‘unknown’ for CALD status, while continuing to decrease, remains very high. FSV has acknowledged that The Orange Door client data are ‘still not sufficiently robust’ to paint an accurate picture of client demographics (FSV 2022).
Further research is required to understand the distinct family violence response and recovery needs and service experiences of children from racially and culturally marginalised communities. However, practitioners surveyed did identify the need for increased funding and a variety of programs for children and their families. They commented:
Many barriers exist for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities including transport, service distrust, financial burdens, drug and alcohol issues, homelessness and family reprisal. Our specialised family violence support services are overwhelmed and our children bear the cost
[Practitioner 256].
Many families from … refugee backgrounds do not understand the implications of family violence. How do we raise awareness and build capacity of victim-survivor parents to access support and not consider that as a stigma in society?
[Practitioner 165].
Children with disability
Children with disability are known to experience violence at higher rates than children without disability (Maclean et al. 2017; Jones et al. 2012; Octoman et al. 2022). Yet family violence service responses are often delivered through a dominant ableist paradigm, with affects the ability of children with disability to have their recovery needs met (Flynn 2020), while also placing undue onus on them to identify and advocate for accommodations to be made in their service interaction (Cadwallader et al. 2024).
Importantly, children’s response and recovery needs may include support for emergent disabilities triggered by experiences of family violence (Orr et al. 2022:12). In the present study, Molly, aged 11, shared that their PSTD emerged ‘from family violence’. Children and young people co-analysing the data with the research team highlighted the potential for delay in the onset and/or recognition of mental ill-health following experiences of family violence, because ‘the effects of family violence don’t really leave once the violence leaves’. This delay may occur where the child is yet to process their trauma, possibly due to a lack of professional support to diagnose and understand the impacts of their experiences; or where the child is still managing an ongoing situation of violence.
Gender diverse children
Three out of 23 participants in the Children’s Activity identified as non-binary. It is significant to highlight the engagement in this research of children beyond the male/female gender binary, given the limited but growing research aimed at understanding the unique needs and experiences of victim-survivors from LGBTIQA+ communities (Our Watch 2017; Walsh 2019; Carlton et al. 2015). Researchers have highlighted underreporting of family violence due to stigma, compounded by heteronormative assumptions and discriminatory practices that act as barriers to gender diverse victim-survivors accessing family violence support services (Wendt and Zannettino 2015; Campo and Tayton 2015; VAGO 2020).
The research findings highlight the need for improved data collection, as well as ongoing research with children and young people with diverse gender identities, to strengthen understandings of the prevalence and perpetration of family and gender-based violence (Safe and Equal 2023; VAGO 2020).
Insufficient service collaboration and system navigation support
A collaborative family violence service system requires investment at the practitioner level, the organisational level and the government level (Campbell et al. 2023). Key features of a collaborative response include role definition, where each service and practitioner working with the child is clear on accountabilities and responsibilities associated with their individual role; appropriate program scope and resourcing, where practitioners have time to deliver supports and follow up with other services involved with the child; and being genuinely child-led, in a way that reflects the unique needs, and sequencing of supports, sought by the child (Campbell et al. 2023:6). Services working together to understand the child’s needs and experiences can contribute to developing trust, as well as mitigating the burden on children to consistently re-tell their story (Fitz-Gibbon et al. 2023a:34).
Services play a key role in mediating children’s engagement with broader systems, including the police, child protection, criminal justice and family law systems. Both practitioners and children in the present study highlighted the importance of effective service collaboration to ensure important risk information is appropriately shared and acted upon.
However, the research findings reveal a divergence between children’s experiences and practitioner insights regarding service collaboration and system navigation support. Almost one quarter of practitioners (47/213 = 22.0%) reflected positively on their service’s ability to collaborate and refer effectively, and to provide advocacy and support to children to navigate the legal system and their school environment. By contrast, children commented on a lack of coordinated and collaborative practice. They noted that services need not only to ‘speak to each other’, but also to ‘connect and communicate’ with key institutions, such as schools and police.
This disconnect between practitioners and children may be explained in part by children feeling that they are not actively listened to and/or communicated with in their service engagement. Practitioners also described communication challenges that emerged due to overlaps between service business hours and the standard school day, leaving minimal opportunity to engage with the child directly. Both practitioners and children suggested enhanced awareness and understanding of family violence and its impacts upon children among educators and teachers. These findings support the need for strengthened integration of family violence support services with schools, to deliver more holistic, wrap-around supports for children in their family violence recovery.
Several key reforms emerging from the RCFV have sought to strengthen service collaboration and coordination, including the FVISS, the CISS and the MARAM framework and accompanying practice tools and guidance. Collectively, these frameworks support a shared understanding of family violence and evidence-based risk factors, and they facilitate the sharing of relevant risk information. Continued implementation of MARAM-aligned practice among the service sector, with a specific focus on children and young people, will contribute to fostering cross-sectoral collaboration and coordination.
Financial stability and safe housing
The devastating financial impacts of family violence are well-established (Johnson et al. 2022; Kutin et al. 2017; Cortis and Bullen 2016); as are the links between experiences of family violence and homelessness (AHRC 2021; AIHW 2019). While children and young people are impacted in particular ways, little is known about their unique experiences of economic abuse (Bruno 2022). Some children and young people may have directly experienced the impacts of financially controlling and/or abusive behaviours, including by not having their family’s basic living needs met, and their protective parent being unable to leave the situation of violence (Bullock et al. 2020; Voth Schrag et al. 2020).
For older children and young people, their focus on financial security may relate to their practical ability to remove themselves from the situation of family violence by accessing safe housing (MCM 2021). A 2021 study by Melbourne City Mission found that 45% of young women and 26% of young men aged 12 to 24 who presented to its youth homeless centre disclosed family violence as their primary reason for presentation (MCM 2021:15). Compounding this issue, this research found a ‘glaring gap’ in service and housing responses for young people experiencing family violence, including a lack of flexible, youth-focused options that take account of the distinct challenges faced by this cohort (MCM 2021).
The need for changes to and/or stability in their living situation emerged as an unmet need for almost half of participants in the Children’s Activity. For some children, this spoke to their desire to live with their protective parent and away from the person using violence. For other participants, particularly those in the older cohort, this related to a need for appropriate crisis accommodation, including to avoid homelessness. Children and young people co-analysing the data with the research team were unsurprised by participants’ need for safe and stable housing. Reflecting on their own experiences of relocating to ensure their family’s safety, they described the process to be extremely destabilising, as it led to ‘always having to look over your shoulder’ and readying for the next time they would need to ‘pack your life up and move’.
Systemic collusion
Systemic collusion refers to direct or indirect actions that support, enable or compound a person’s experiences of systemic harm and/or systemic abuse (Safe and Equal 2021). The research findings have exposed significant concerns about the role of the family law system and the criminal justice system in the ‘web of accountability’ (Chung et al. 2020) for family violence. Both practitioners and children identified the family law parenting orders and police processes as inhibiting the effectiveness of family violence service responses and/or placing children at risk of harm. While practitioners described these processes and systems as a barrier to their effective practice with children, children highlighted how family law parenting orders and police responses to family violence had tangible – and often devastating – impacts on their safety and wellbeing.
The family law system
Recent reforms to the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) are intended to make the family law system safer for separating families, including by repealing the presumption of equal shared parental responsibility and requiring the family courts to consider what parenting arrangements would promote safety (including from family violence) when determining a child’s best interests. However, the research findings reinforce ongoing concerns about the ability of the family law system ‘to identify and respond in a timely, effective and trauma-informed way to family violence’ (Carson et al. 2022:17). They also emphasise the need to listen to children and their experiences of family violence when making arrangements for children following parental separation. The reflections of Angelica, aged 10, are consistent with earlier research indicating children’s feelings of anxiety and distress when parenting orders require a child to live or spend time with a parent whom they experience as unsafe (Douglas 2018; Kaspiew et al. 2022; Carson et al. 2022; Carson et al. 2018; Kaspiew, et al. 2014; ALRC 2019).
The research findings also reinforce barriers to accessing support that arise from the child requiring consent from a parent who may be the person using violence (State of Victoria 2021:143). Angelica, aged 10, explained of her short-lived service engagement:
I spoke to a social worker, but only a few times because my dad stopped us from seeing her. We should see who we want and they shouldn’t tell our dad because he makes problems.
Angelia’s reform suggestion to improve the family violence system for children and young people was to ‘tell the courts what we need and make them listen’. Practitioners also recommended reforms to strengthen children’s voices in family law decision-making processes. While children themselves have called for a ‘bigger voice more of the time’ in this context (Carson et al. 2018), an ongoing tension persists between protecting children from parental conflict, and fulfilling their right to participation (Parkinson and Cashmore 2008; Dimopoulos 2023).
Experiences with police
The research findings reveal clear scope for improvements to Victoria Police processes and practices. While Victoria Police have implemented process reforms – including asking questions specific to children when responding to family violence incidents, improving the consistency of referrals to support services, and ensuring that children are consistently recorded as ‘protected persons’ and/or ‘affected family members’ on family violence safety notices or intervention orders – police practices do not always fulfil the strategic intent of these reforms (FVRIM 2023:12–13; CSA 2023).
The Victoria Police Code of Practice for the Investigation of Family Violence (2022:20) states that ‘[p]olice officers seek the views and wishes of children and young people when it is safe, reasonable and appropriate to do so’. However, children and young people in the present study shared experiences of not being believed by police, police seemingly ‘siding’ with the person using violence, and police failing to respond adequately to their situation of violence. Children and young people’s overwhelmingly negative experiences must be highlighted, given that police reports are the most common pathway into The Orange Door network for children aged up to 13 years in Victoria.
Conclusion
The research findings underscore the importance of services recognising that there is no ‘one size fits all’ for supporting children and young people who have experienced family violence. The findings challenge the ‘generalising impulse’ (Brooks and Gerwitz 1996:3) of adult-centric systems that are premised on a ‘universal’ child victim-survivor: one who is inherently vulnerable, dependent and has the same needs as their parent or caregiver.
Children who experience intersecting forms of structural oppression and marginalisation – including children with disability, Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children, LGBTIQA+ children, and children from migrant and refugee communities – encounter additional barriers to accessing family violence supports and having their needs met.
The research findings also emphasise the overwhelming importance for children of connection, trust and loving relationships, and of ensuring the safety, health and wellbeing, and employment of their family members, to enable them to heal from their experiences of family violence. These insights reinforce that children’s safety is complex and dynamic, extending beyond physical safety to include emotional and psychological wellbeing and financial security.
The research findings show that children who have experienced family violence often assume a ‘protector’ role for their mother and/or siblings, and have an intuitive focus on self-managing safety planning. While children’s safety and wellbeing needs may align with features identified by adult victim-survivors (Safe and Equal 2022), the system and services must respect children as individual rights-bearers, who are capable of identifying and articulating their distinct family violence response and recovery needs.
The research findings have also exposed ongoing systemic barriers to supporting children as victim-survivors in their own right effectively. These include: long wait times to access services, staff shortages, a lack of specialised programs and therapeutic interventions, insufficient case management periods, and practitioner skills and confidence; family law parenting orders and police processes; financial support and housing stability as key unmet needs; inefficient service collaboration and communication; and a dearth of data about the timeliness and effectiveness of The Orange Door sites’ engagement with children.
Most critically, the research findings highlight the need to listen to and understand children’s experiences to meet their family violence response and recovery needs effectively. The essence of this conclusion is captured by a seemingly simple request from Molly, aged 11:
Start listening. Don’t think you know. You can’t see us as victims in our own right unless you actually listen.
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